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When You're Just Not Into Him. The Movie

FYI if you didn't catch on my baby daddy is also my boyfriend. And the history behind us sounds like a cliche date movie. He was in my geometry class and wasn't the apple of my eye. Heck - i used to ignore him and bury myself in the back of the class and ignore all questions. But if we caught eye contact i would answer with two words. I know-i was a bit a mean but he didn't seem like my type. I hated the people he hung out with, seemed like a guy that just wanted to hit-it-and-quit-it, and acted stupid when it wasn't needed.

BUT HOW DID WE HAPPEN?- he needed a way to talk to me so he would ask for help...ALL THE TIME. and soon enough we started talking to each other about stuff other than math. and gradually i started feeling things- Feeling a vibe , feeling a sense of attraction to him. Before i knew it i was hooked. Hooked on his face, personality and i figured why people said opposites attract. He was the total opposite of me; different hobbies,different style and different mind set. But oddly enough it was pulling us together. it made things interesting.

3 YEARS LATER- and we're still together . surprisingly . through all the ups and downs ,we still want each other. and I'm still finding out new things about him. and that took three years to come out! But whats more interesting, is that we understand and communicate better than we did before. So when people mention that they've known their significant other for a year i say " wait till later on and you'll see a huge difference. ". it also helps me understand my parents relationship. they're also total opposites but they work well enough to be together for 30 years and still going strong. 

Its weird to question love or even define love but as time keeps going , the more and more i get it.i get what its suppose to feel like. i get why real love lasts.